I wasn’t going to write about this. I really wasn’t. Because… well, after all, it’s not that important. Not important like world peace or life-altering decisions. Not even important like finishing that…
Category: Personal stories
From then to now: The neurodivergent way of being
I remember when I was a child, my father often told me that I was a Type A personality. I was active, curious, talkative, intense. That’s just how I was and no one tried to “fix” me…
When did my lilac come and go?
You won’t have to ask me what my favorite flower is — you could guess by the lilacs I’ve planted on both main sides of my house. All different kinds, blooming at different times…
From self-help to research through the lens of self-determination theory
Some of you may have come across my “Call for Research Participants,” and some of you were quite surprised by it. I get it. Studying psychology at this stage in my life might not…
All the pieces that form a whole me
There are moments when I catch myself not knowing where I am — a smell, a color, a street sound pulls me into a past version of myself I forgot I still carried. As I’ve lived in…
Our divisive world: Reflecting on missed opportunities
Some missed opportunities linger. Not because we didn’t try, or because we weren’t ready but because we didn’t fit the mold someone else built for us. As I was reflecting the other day…
I am only human: The art of being uncomfortable
May Day is becoming a memory… Looking back on Rhinoceritis in the Making, after the imaginary curtain falls and I’m left alone with myself, I keep reflecting on the lessons learned that…
Easter and the not-so-simple exercise of forgiving oneself
Happy Easter to those of you who celebrate Easter! “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34) is one of the most cited examples of unconditional forgiveness…
The show must go on
No, this post has nothing to do with Queen’s memorable song—or maybe, in a way, it does. After all, “inside my heart is breaking.” The song came to mind while searching for the right title…
Bumpy Road
It’s officially spring! A season of renewal, awakening, and transformation. With it, I’m keeping a promise I made last year when I launched my online art print store: to release a new…